Whenever a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of trying to go it alone, and quickly gets back into the formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front. (If we have as much sense as a goose, we will stay in formation with those who are headed the same way we are going.) When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back in the wing and another goose flies point. (It pays to take turns doing hard jobs - with people or geese flying south.) The geese honk from behind to encourage those up front to keep up their speed. (What do we say when we honk from behind?) Finally (now pay attention), when a goose gets sick, or is wounded by gunshot and falls out, two geese fall out of formation and follow it down to help and protect it. They stay with it until it is either able to fly or until it is dead, and then they launch out on their own or with another formation to catch up with their group. If we have the sense of a goose we will stand by each other like that.
Friday, September 28, 2007
Goose Sense
Whenever a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of trying to go it alone, and quickly gets back into the formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front. (If we have as much sense as a goose, we will stay in formation with those who are headed the same way we are going.) When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back in the wing and another goose flies point. (It pays to take turns doing hard jobs - with people or geese flying south.) The geese honk from behind to encourage those up front to keep up their speed. (What do we say when we honk from behind?) Finally (now pay attention), when a goose gets sick, or is wounded by gunshot and falls out, two geese fall out of formation and follow it down to help and protect it. They stay with it until it is either able to fly or until it is dead, and then they launch out on their own or with another formation to catch up with their group. If we have the sense of a goose we will stand by each other like that.
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Being a Grandma
Becoming a grandmother is marvelously simple, filling our hearts with uncomplicated happiness and our wallets with shameless numbers of photographs. In our relationships with our grandchildren there are fewer obligations and more enjoyment, fewer expectations and more acceptance, fewer lessons and a lot more laughter, fewer vegetables and more dessert. It's delicious being a grandparent. Being a grandparent, which I've heard described as "parenthood one step removed," turns out, more precisely, to be parenthood one blissful step removed.
I found this in Ladies Home Journal. It was written by Judith Viorst and she is coming out with a book called Alexander and the Wonderful, Marvelous, Excellent, Terrific Ninety Days. This was taken from that book. I love how she described being a grandparent and I couldn't have said anything better or add anything to it. Thanks Judith!
Safe Travels,
Joan
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Travel Tuesday - Hilton Head Island, South Carolina
The beautiful beach in Hilton Head
Today we are going to Hilton Head Island. Hilton Head is the largest sea island between New Jersey and Florida. Hilton Head is surrounded by what they call Low Country. And that is where all the romance and beauty of the Old South lives. The coast of Hilton Head is one of the prettiest in the Southeast. Okay, I may be a little bias because we go there for our family vacations, but it really is a wonderful beach. That is where my banner of Maddie and my toes were taken. Hilton Head is a beautiful landscape, big tall pines and live oaks with Spanish moss are all over the island and the sand dunes with the sea oats are just beautiful. Most of Hilton Head is divided up into what they call Plantations, they have either resorts or homes in the Plantations. The biggest Plantation is Sea Pines where you can go to the Harbor Town lighthouse and look at over the island. Golf reigns king here, it is a golfer's paradise for sure with tennis coming in a close second. There are many accommodations to choose from, either very upscale hotels and resorts or villas. And the choices of restaurants are too many to choose from. Let me tell you about some of our favorite restaurants. The Sea Shack is a little place that looks like a hole in the wall but it has some of the best seafood on the island. People start lining up early for their lunch and dinner so if you go, get there early. Another one of our favorites restaurants is Marley's, it feels like you have gone to the caribbean and the food is great and so are the margaritas. And the little bakery/deli called Signe's is so wonderful, they have the best key lime poundcake. When you are done with all that eating you get work it off riding bikes on the bike trails that go around most of the island or you could kayaking and see the dolphins. And when your stomach is full and you've exercised, go hit the stores and shop till you drop. All of these things are why we go back year after year and why I hope that someday my sweetie and I can spend some of the winter months on this island. Hope you are having a good week. I have not decided where to go next week but it sure to be somewhere fun.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Monday, September 24, 2007
Greetings from Skagway
Safe Travels,
Joan
50 Promises For Marriage
1. Start each day with a kiss. 2. Wear your wedding ring at all times. 3. Date once a week. 4. Accept differences. 5. Be polite. 6. Be gentle 7. Seven was missing from the card. 8. Smile often 9. Touch 10. Talk about dreams 11. Select a song that can be "your song" 12. Give back rubs. 13. Laugh together. 14. Send a card for no reason. 15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks. 16. Listen. 17 Encourage. 18. Do it his or her way 19. Know his or her needs. 20. Fix the other person breakfast. 21. Compliment twice a day. 22. Call during the day. 23. Slow down. 24. Hold hands. 25. Cuddle. 26. Ask for each other's opinion. 27. Show respect. 28. Welcome the other person home. 29. Look your best. 30. Wink at each other. 31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way. 32. Apologize. 33.Forgive. 34. Set up a romantic getaway. 35. Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?". 36. Be positive. 37. Be kind. 38. Be vulnerable. 39. Respond quickly to the other person's request. 40. Talk about your love. 41. Reminisce about your favorite times together. 42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy. 43. Send flowers every Valentine's Day and anniversary. 44. Admit when wrong. 45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires. 46. Pray for each other daily. 47. Watch sunsets together. 48. Say "I love you" frequently. 49. End the day with a hug. 50. Seek outside help when needed.
Friday, September 21, 2007
Because God Loves Me 1st Corinthians 13:4-8
Thursday, September 20, 2007
The Clothes Blues
IF YOU SEE THESE TWO, DO NOT APPREHEND OR YOU MAY BE MISSING SOME OF YOUR CLOTHING. BRING THAT LITTLE ONE TO GRANDMA BEFORE THEY TEACH HER THEIR WAYS!
Okay, girls do not get upset with me. I'm only kidding. These are my two girls and my granddaughter, my girls are in their mid to later 20's, so I thought my clothes would be safe from them. I really didn't think I was hip enough for them to wear but I guess I was wrong. As some of you know, I lost about 35 pounds on Weight Watchers last year and I've been slowly adding some new clothes to my closet. It is exciting to buy some clothes that I couldn't wear before but it seems my closet is their new store to shop in. For instance, a few weeks ago I was looking for my pair of white capris to wear to a party, in my mind I had my outfit all planned out for this party. White capris, black top, black sandals etc..., so I searched my closet and couldn't find them anywhere. So I'm thinking okay I've been having this menopausal brain fog lately so maybe I left them at the dry cleaners and forgot. So I go to the dry cleaners, ask the kid if he's seen them, he looks, can't find any and looks at me like I'm nuts. Which by that time I was beginning to wonder if I even had white capris, finally it dawns on me to ask my daughter if she has seen them. Oh yea, she says, she tried them on and didn't like them so they are in her room somehwere! UGH!!! And then the other day one of them(I won't say whom) came home with a very pretty purple cami on. And I'm thinking that cami looks just like the one I just bought to take with me with on my cruise to wear with the matching purple sweater. So I look at her and say, is that my purple cami? Oh yeah, she says......... Do you see a pattern here? By the way the purple cami still had the tags on it when she took it out of my closet! Again, I'm just teasing with you girls. I suppose I should be flattered that they want to "borrow" my clothes, but please tell me so I don't think I'm going crazy because that's not hard to do these days. And still bring the baby to Grandma, it's not too late for her, but now that I think of it she's been eyeing my pink cell phone.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
You Lift me up Award
Kari at Just Livin Large gave me this great award. But I think we all lift each other up and encourage each other. At least that has been my experience with all of you guys. Thanks Kari and we will figure out this blogging stuff one step at a time. I would pass this on but I really need to pack right now and for some strange reason I keep playing on the computer.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Alaska
I am heading out west tomorrow for a seminar at sea. I am going to Vancouver where I'll meet a girlfriend and we will board a ship for Alaska. I am very excited but at the same time, what was I thinking signing up for this seminar the same month as our family vacation? You guys know I love to travel, it's the reason I got in the travel business so I am always up to seeing and experiencing a new place. And Alaska looks wonderful "T" from Livin the Life has been there and she tells me I'll love it and I'm sure I will. But my sweetie can't go with me because of his work, and even though a friend is coming with me and I'll be with a group of other travel agents and our cruise representative, I am going to miss him something crazy. I think it might be the longest we've been apart. I've been on these trips before without him, I went to Paris in 1999 with a group of travel agents by myself and it always is a growing experience to step out of your comfort zone. But I'll still miss you sweetie! But don't worry, our cell phone service tells me I will have free service in Alaska so I'll be calling you when we dock and just think you won't have me calling you ten times a day and asking you things like "what are you doing?". LOL. Anyway, I'll be gone but I have some posts ready that my daughter will post for me and I'll probably check in at some point. I also have Travel Tuesday done for next week and ready to post so hopefully she'll remember to post them. I won't be online much because it costs around a zillion dollars to get online on a cruise ship, okay I exaggerate but it's not the cheapest so I'll just get online a few times to let you know a bear hasn't gotten me or I fell overboard. I am so hoping to see a whale and a bald eagle. I already know there will be wonderful opportunities for pictures. But if you can, pray for me while I'm gone, I know I've mention some ongoing back issues and I'm a little nervous about handling my luggage by myself. I know the cruise lines will help me with some of it, but I might have a problem sometimes. I'll be back soon and don't forget to check back in because I have some nice posts set up. Can't wait to play catch up when I get back. Take care!
Safe Travels,
Joan
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Okay Now.................
Safe Travels,
Joan
Travel Tuesday - Savannah, Georgia
My sweetie and Maddie walking on the cobblestone streets of the riverfront
The tomb of Nathaniel Greene , one of the great Revolutionary War Generals
Autumn
Sunday, September 16, 2007
My New Pink Vacuum
This is my new pink vacuum. For some reason, when I brought this baby home, my family started to laugh. A pink vacuum they said, how well will this work? Well, let me tell you, this little baby sucks up everything in it's way. All Cleo's pet hair, and that's alot of pet hair, doesn't stand a chance with my new pink machine. Okay, it was a little more than I wanted to spend on a vacuum but for some reason I am really hard on vacuums and every year I have to buy a new one because the cheap one I bought falls apart. So I decided to pay a little more for this Dyson and hopefully it will last many years. It does say on the package that it'll be the last vacuum you ever buy so I will trust them and see. It looks so pretty when I use it and it also benefits the breast cancer foundation and it's pink. How could you not like it? And by the way, that's not me in the pink skirt and heels vacuuming in the picture but I'll take that little dog.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Saturday, September 15, 2007
A little of this and that
Anyway, one day away from blogville and there is so much going on, Kat has posted wonderful pictures of how she relaxes with her morning coffee. Kari is talking about moving to Ohio. I'm not sure if she's kidding, but Ohio is a nice place to live. And Sandy showed a lot of grace when faced with a rude person.
Also, here's a tip about air planes. Don't get on a plane after drinking a Venti size coffee from Starbucks. I did that yesterday because I needed some caffeine getting up that early and then I got on a 50 seat plane with one restroom and a sick guy that was sitting behind me. I'm not sure if he was air sick or virus sick but I waited for him to get out of the one restroom on the plane for 20 minutes and I'm not kidding. I honestly was praying to the Lord for that guy to get out of that restroom. And the Lord answered my prayer--thank you!
Also, last but not least if you can, could you please pray for Kelli. Kelli's blog is one of the first I started to read and she comes and visits me every once in a while and always leaves me a kind or encouraging word. Go and read her story here and keep her in your prayers.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Friday, September 14, 2007
Home Sweet Home
Well, we made it home from the beach safe and sound. It was sad to leave but it was time to come home to the real world of bills and work and well you get the picture. I think I want to go back to the beach...... So today it's unpacking, catching up with phone calls and going to the grocery. All that fun stuff, can I go back to the beach ? But all kidding aside, it is nice to get home and the weather here is great and Cleo (my kitty cat) was so glad to see me. I don't think anyone gave her treats the whole time we were gone. We got up at 3am this morning to catch the first flight home, so I'm tired today but will catch up with everyone's blogs tomorrow. Have a great weekend!
Safe Travels,
Joan
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Attitude
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company......a church.....a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. We cannot change our past......we cannot change the fact people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude......I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you....we are in charge of our ATTITUDES.
Author of "Attitudes" is Chuck Swindoll
Chuck Swindoll is a Christian writer & teacher. Alot of you probably have already seen this, but I think it's very well said. My sweetie keeps the above next to his desk at work. I know I need to remind myself of my "attitude" sometimes. Have a great day!
Safe Travels,
Joan
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Travel Tuesday - Charleston, South Carolina
Two Meeting Street Inn, my sweetie & I had the pleasure of staying here about six years ago. If you ever go to Charleston, I would recommend one of the wonderful Inns they have all over the city. This one is one of the prettiest I have ever been too. They include this inn on the tours of the city. Click on to the link above and check it out, it is probably one of the most romantic inns in the country.
This is my sweet niece Maria, who is so lucky to live in Charleston. We ate at Bubba Gumps. I am going to have to really get serious about Weight Watchers again, this eating out stuff is killing my good intentions to eat well.
This is in the graveyard of the church. My daughter Melissa, Maria and my sweetie.
Check it out
Also check out this from Debrak from The Bunnies Bungalow, it's a really well written and moving story. So check out both of these girls today. Hopefully I can get back later today to do Travel Tuesday. Have a great day!
Safe Travels,
Joan
Monday, September 10, 2007
You Make Me Smile Award and a Giveaway
So I am passing this on to a couple of people. First one goes to:
Dianne at Glasses of Grace, her blog always makes me smile with her love for her niece and the Lord.
Jennifer at The Beaufort Lookout , her blog makes me smile because she always has something thoughtful to say.
"T" at Living the Life, she makes me smile with funny things like painting her dog "toes"
Thanks Kari and while I'm at it go over here and enter Kari's giveaway of very pretty Christmas ornaments. Christmas will be here before you know it and wouldn't it be great to have new ornaments on your tree. But go over soon because this giveaway ends on Wednesday.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Beach Houses and Bathtubs
I took these beach house photos today to show you some of the beautiful homes that sit on the beach here in Hilton Head. I find some of them so interesting. If you click on the photos you can see the big new houses with the older beach homes next to them. Some of these new homes are huge. So pretty and wouldn't it be so nice to live in one of these and look at the beach everyday? Don't you just love the sand dunes also?
And I guess you are wondering why is this crazy lady posting pictures of bathtubs? Well, this is a little piece of heaven to me. There are three big giant tubs in this place we are staying. Now why is this such a big deal to me? Because at my home I have a bathtub that would only fit a ten year old. Our home was built in the 70's and I guess they didn't put in double vanities and big tubs and all that fun stuff. So this is what I look forward to each time we come here, taking long bubble baths. I have some back "issues" and I swear my back feels better after soaking in one of these tubs. So I was wondering if any of you have wonderful tubs that you would want to post a picture of so I can be envious, sorry I mean happy for you. Anyway, we are heading to Charleston, South Carolina tomorrow to have lunch with my sweet niece who lives there. I hope to get some great pictures of the old city and I'll post Charleston for Travel Tuesday this week. If you haven't been there, you are going to love this city. It's one of my all time favorite. I know I say that alot but it really is. But remember we have a one year old with us so everything could change if she has a meltdown.
Joan
Friday, September 7, 2007
Good Night From Maddie!
Nice Matters
Jennifer at the Beaufort Lookout gave me this award and I do so appreciate it. Like I said earlier, I am so grateful to have made some new friends here in blogland. So now it's my turn to pass this on, I still don't know seven of you that might not already have this award so I have four of you to pass it on too. And I didn't realize until I started to write this, that all four of you are Cincinnati girls. Cincinnati girls are really nice!! So, this award goes to nice people who inspire good feelings and inspiration.
Actually, that would be almost everyone whom I've come in contact with so far in blogging. I've not had any negative people yet, though I'm sure there's probably some out there. Anyway, here are four picks:
Sarah at Sarah Cool
Sarah atWhitman's Sampler
Christine at Epiphany Sanctuary
Anyway, thanks to Jennifer at the Beaufort Lookout and by the way Kari wants to be an Ohio girl so I think we should make her an honorary member of the Ohio girls. I think she just wants to be close to Johnny Bench. :-) Sarah at Whitman's Sampler and Katie are sisters and are friends with my daughter but I consider them friends also. And Christine and Sarah Cool are new blog friends and they both have great blogs. So take the Nice Matters award and post it on your blog.
Safe Travels,
Joan
On the Beach
Here's some pictures of our time on the beach. This little grandchild loves the beach and it's so much fun watching her discover all the things on the beach. She gets a big kick out of the pelicans flying above her head and she has no fear of the ocean at all. In fact when we leave, she screams her head off. I don't think she'll remember any of this but with the hundreds of pictures we've taken, we can show her someday.
Also I don't want to forget that the Beaufort Lookout has given me the Nice Matters award. My friend Kari gave me this award a little while back but I am so grateful for new friends who are so kind. And you already know how I feel about your blog, Beaufort Lookout! And now that I know some people in bloggyville, I want to pass on this award to a few people. But I have to wait till this afternoon while Maddie is taking a nap and Grandma is not freaking out that she's going to fall on these hard floors here and hurt herself. She has really takin' off walking while she's down here in Hilton Head and she thinks she doesn't need any help in doing it. Be back later on......
Safe Travels,
Joan
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Check it out
And BooMama along with Leigh are having a purse giveaway. You don't have to tell me twice when it comes to purses, so check them out.
And just because she has one of my all time favorite blogs, go to The Beaufort Lookout, she always has something interesting and thought provoking on her blog. Well, that's about it for now, except remember the post I did here, well Philippians just keeps coming up in my daily life so I'm guessing it might be time to do an in depth study of it. Mommy and Maddie are still asleep so I guess I'll get ready for the day. Have a great day!
Safe Travels,
Joan
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Hilton Head & A Bug Story
Flying roach
View from where I'm staying
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Travel Tuesday - Cannes, France
Shopping in Cannes
My sweetie in Cannes
We left Barcelona and cruised to Cannes. When we arrived in Cannes, the Cannes film festival was going on. We heard rumors that Tom Hanks was there, but we didn't see him. By the time we got to Cannes, we were both tired and ready to go home from our long trip. We had already been gone over two weeks and we wanted to relax. Mostly we shopped along the markets and strolled along the waterfront where fishing boats sit right next to yachts. We had alot of fun in Cannes, we did some shopping for our granddaughter Maddie, even though she wasn't even born yet but we knew she was going to be a girl. The French must love their dogs because it seemed like they all brought them to work with them. I have always wanted to go to Eze, which is a medieval village, it looks so pretty and just the kind of place I love to explore. From Cannes you can also go to Nice, Monte Carlo & St. Tropez. With just one day in port, it is hard to choose one. I was surprised by the beach on the top picture, it was small and rocky. Cannes was a fun place to just go and walk around and we enjoyed our day of no sightseeing, just hanging with the locals and shopping and eating. If any of you have ever been to Eze, please let me know what you thought of it. It was the one place I was disappointed with not being able to see. This ends our cruise around the Mediterranean. It was wonderful and I hope to go back someday. I'm still thinking of where we should go on our next destination on Travel Tuesday. I have alot of ideas but if any of you have a request, I'll be happy to explore it with you. Thanks for cruising along with my sweetie and I. It was a wonderful way to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary and I can't wait to see what we're doing for our 60th. :-).
Safe Travels,
Joan
Monday, September 3, 2007
Adventures in Babysitting
Maddie fell asleep on Grams & Gramps bed
Eating blueberry waffles for breakfast
Maddie & Gramps watching Baby Einstein
We had the big overnight Saturday night. It was Maddie's first time away from Mom & Dad. We had a ball. First we went to McDonald's to get Maddie (okay, to get Grandma) one of their soft serve ice cream cones. They are really good and my friends at Weight Watchers tell me they are only two points. Two points is not alot on Weight Watchers. Okay so I did get the hard chocolate topping on our soft serve cone. I ate that part and Maddie loved the vanilla soft serve ice cream, she kind of sucked the ice cream out of the cone but she never left my lap until it was all gone. I could really become addicted to these yummy things. I have no idea what mommy is talking about with her sleeping habits, she was a perfect angel for us and woke up waving to us. After breakfast Gramps and Maddie watched Baby Einstein, which we had to watch twice. And we had to watch this, over and over. I dare you guys to watch this over and over. Only the brave can do it. Well, off to a Labor Day picnic at my sister's house. I still need to make my artichoke dip from the Four Sisters Inns cookbook. Let me know if you want the recipe and I'll post it. Drop by the Four Sisters website, you'll feel like you step into a peaceful retreat. I'll do a longer post someday just about these wonderful Bed & Breakfasts on a Travel Tuesday but for now don't forget about Cannes tomorrow and have a safe and restful Labor Day.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Good Cause and Cute & Pink
Safe Travels,
Joan
Sunday, September 2, 2007
Thinking out loud
"Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand."
Philippians 4:6,7
So I woke up this morning with this verse on my mind and then I checked my e-mail and the K-Love's encouraging word of the day was Philippians 4:19 which says "And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches." HELLO, do you think I'm suppose to read Philippians? I think the Lord shows us sometimes where to go in His word for what is relevant in our lives at that time and I know He just did that.
Safe Travels,
Joan
Saturday, September 1, 2007
A little of this and that
Look at these mums my sweet friend Vickie gave me
And because I can't help myself when it comes to Maddie
Look at those wonderful mums. I hope I don't kill them like I did my shade impatients. On the right side of my steps there are usually shade impatients overflowing onto the steps but this year we had no rain and I was lazy when it came to watering them. My friend tells me these will be purple when they bloom. Thanks Vickie!
And because I believe as Grandparents we can spoil our grandkids in ways we couldn't afford to do when our kids were little and because we didn't want them to grow up and be spoil brats, we got Maddie this little treat bag for Halloween. Not that she's going to be doing much trick or treating, I mean she is only one and she doesn't eat candy. You can spoil your own little grandkid with one by going here. And my hubby is so excited because when he comes home from golf today, Maddie is coming to spend her first overnight at Grams and Gramps. It's the first thing he talked about when he got up this morning. My daughter tells me we might not be so thrilled with her sleeping habits. Anyway if you made it all the way down this long post, have a great Labor Day weekend!
Safe Travels,
Joan